13dias's Notizen, 12 Feb 19

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today she prepared steamed broccoli dish ,she say: "I did it specially for you since you don't like heavy food" I was so naively happy thinking she realized this is exactly the best thing for everybody.. went "thank you so much" and engulf it quickly after the first bite I understood why the innocent brocoli looked so shiny..the thing was dripping on sesame oil.. like 3/4 of the plate was oil!!.. and she hurry me to finish the dish and to serve myself more (she knew what she was doing cause she touch all the dishes except that one) .. so disappointing fs! .. all my reaction was just to ask in front of everyone: "hey this is sesame oil huh?" .. she say "aha" quickly and try to serve more tea but her face got red & nervous super fast and it was so clear she was embarrassed LOL it gave me a good laugh... man, I'm just hoping this time passes so quickly.. on the plus side it's making me so aware of food that that self-awareness is helping me get that arrow down!

51 kg Bisher verloren: 3,5 kg. Still to go: 1 kg. Diät befolgt: Recht gut.

Verlust von 0,4 kg pro Woche

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My mom tries the same, i have told my mom if I catch her again I won’t ever speak to her again and she will have no contact with my children

12 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: rosio19

Be clear and if she don’t listen you don’t want her in your life

12 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: rosio19

Having that said, being underweight is also dangerous...I hope that’s not your case

12 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: rosio19

OMG, she's still there? Hasn't that been like forever now?

12 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: kpwcalories

Omg when is she going to leave? What’s with the sabotage? She does know that y’all are not in competition right?

13 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: NOLAMOMMY

yes @kpw is not easy; Im not underweight @rosio... even if I did that doesn't give her the right to act like that , I'm not her daughter ..also I showed her I'm on healthy BMI range and she knows I used to weight less... I am getting my strength from all of you guys. she is that kind of ppl that think fat is healthy or something ...husband has gained 7 kilos in a month ..just cause he can't say no either

13 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: 13dias

it sucks NOLA.. she is creating all this unnecesary drama around food , should be a simple thing that each person takes care for it's own body and not a "power game" or a manipulation eat.. I don't know

13 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: 13dias

I am sorry about that situation, I hope things get better soon. 🙏

13 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: Keilin_4

If you go on Reddit and search “justnoMIL” you’ll find a whole community of people who have inconsiderate/jealous/crazy/whatever mother-in-laws. The people on the forum encourage each other in standing up for themselves, setting clear boundaries, etc. It seems like something that could help since you seem to be struggling with your mother-in-law. Good luck to you.

13 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: mandabananaba

thanks @mandaba ! .. I use Reddit a lot, it's really a good coping mechanism and hearing similar stories gives a sense of company that helps to ease out the situation ☺.. the only good side is that this is temporary and its making me appreciate a bit better the friends and family I have.

14 Feb 19 vom Mitglied: 13dias


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